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10 Tips for Managing Life After Fistula Surgery

Managing IBD

October 19, 2020

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by Jenna Farmer


Medically Reviewed by:

Saurabh Sethi, M.D., MPH


by Jenna Farmer


Medically Reviewed by:

Saurabh Sethi, M.D., MPH


Fistulas are a common and severe complication of living with Crohn’s disease. Yet despite their frequency, they still remain a little-discussed symptom of inflammatory bowel disease (IBD).

Research has shown that fistulas affect up to 50 percent of us living with IBD within 20 years of diagnosis.

Defined as an abnormal connection between two parts of the body, in people with Crohn’s, fistulas can form in many places:

Depending on the location, symptoms vary — and while some minor fistulas can be treated with antibiotics, many require surgical intervention. This typically involves a fistulotomy, which is a procedure that opens up the fistula to allow it to heal properly.

If a fistula is larger, a seton (a piece of surgical thread) may also be used to help drainage. This is usually straightforward, but the recovery process can take much longer.

After experiencing 4 abscesses, 1 anal fistula, and 3 surgeries myself, here are my top tips for managing life after your fistula surgery.

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1. Have patience

Fistula surgery may be a minor procedure, but patience is definitely required for the recovery process. You might find that your wound drains for weeks after surgery, as it will be left open to aid healing.

Because of this, you’ll usually need to be visited by a nurse who will help dress and clean the wound until it heals.

The process may seem slow, but most people can return to work and most daily activities after a week or two.

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2. Find support online

There are community groups for everything these days, and that includes fistula recovery.

I joined the Facebook group, Abscess/Fistula Support for Women and found it invaluable for picking up tips on everything from managing pain to cleaning my wound.

These groups can help you feel less alone, and it’s also great to get advice from those who are a little further on in their recovery journey to know what to expect.

3. Keep an emergency supply kit

Once you feel confident enough to venture out and about, pack a supply kit to deal with any fistula-related emergencies.

For me, getting back to normal was important so I was able to return to work after a few weeks and take short car journeys.

My emergency pack helped my confidence and included:

  • unscented water wipes
  • a water spray bottle to clean my wound
  • a spare pair of underwear
  • extra medical gauze, in case my dressing needed to be reapplied

If you’re dealing with lots of drainage, soft organic panty liners can also help.

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4. Embrace sitz baths

A sitz bath is a shallow bath in warm or hot water that cleanses the perineum. These can help ease discomfort, and in the early stages, you might want to take several a day or after each bowel movement.

If you don’t have a bath or are traveling, you can use a sitz bath seat. This cleverly fits over your toilet seat so you simply add the water and sit in it.

Some people prefer to add Epsom salt to their sitz bath, too.

After bathing, gently pat the area dry rather than rubbing it, which can aggravate the skin. Some people prefer to use a hairdryer on a low setting to gently dry the area without irritation.

5. Be on the lookout for signs of infection

With fistulas, there’s a risk of infection by the wound healing over too quickly and causing an abscess.

The sooner you spot these signs, the easier they can be treated. Sometimes, a dose of antibiotics is all that’s needed.

Keep an eye out for any hot, burning pain or continual green pus.

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6. Ask about safe sex

Sex might be the last thing on your mind at first, but after a few weeks, it’s usually possible to resume intercourse if you’d like to.

You don’t necessarily need to wait for the wound to completely heal, and sex with a seton is perfectly possible, too.

It’s worth checking with your medical team. They’ll be able to advise you when it’s safe to do so.

7. Don’t panic if you notice some irritation

For months after surgery, I would panic every time I felt slight irritation at my wound site.

Irritation is actually really normal and it’s something I still occasionally have years later. Scar tissue can form from a fistulotomy, and this can sometimes feel itchy or a little sore.

If you have lots of scar tissue, your doctor might show you some gentle massage exercises to help break the skin down.

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8. Know your options if surgery isn’t successful

The good news is that lots of fistulas are completely resolved via surgery. However, depending on the location, they can reoccur.

There are plenty of options if surgery isn’t successful for you at first. Some find it manageable to live with their fistula long term, and it’s possible to keep a seton for many years.

There are also lots of different surgical options if a fistulotomy isn’t successful on the first try. Talk with your doctor about your options.

9. Ease into exercise gently

Exercise is important for our overall well-being, but it could be worth gently easing back into your exercise routine.

Depending on the location of your fistula, it may get irritated by lots of movement and sweat. As mine was in the perianal area, I found cardiovascular exercise would leave the area sore at first.

Start with low impact exercise and gradually build up to longer workouts. I also found using the gym a better option than exercising outside, as I could immediately use the shower facilities afterward to clean the area.

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10. Take time for your mental health

If I could offer one piece of advice, it would be this.

My years of dealing with abscesses and a fistula really took a toll on my mental health. I felt as if my life was on hold and even believed it was my own fault for not keeping the area clean enough — even though I was showering multiple times a day.

I also struggled with embarrassment around showing my wound to different doctors when getting it dressed.

Over time, I became more confident and realized it wasn’t my fault.

Your medical team will have seen it all before — and there’s really nothing to be embarrassed about.

You may feel as if you’re the only one going through this problem, but I can guarantee that you’re not.

The bottom line

I hope these tips have shown you that while fistula surgery may seem daunting, the recovery process doesn’t have to be.

For many, recovery is straightforward, and you’ll hopefully be back to living life to the fullest before you know it!

Article originally appeared on October 19, 2020 on Bezzy’s sister site, Healthline. Last medically reviewed on October 16, 2020.

Medically reviewed on October 19, 2020

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About the author

Jenna Farmer

Jenna Farmer is a UK-based freelance journalist who specializes in writing about her journey with Crohn’s disease. She’s passionate about raising awareness of living a full life with IBD. Visit her blog, A Balanced Belly, or find her on Instagram.

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